Spiritual Questions about life

The consequences of each decision we take depends on the consciousness with which it is taken (P&M Jan 31, 1914). When is it right to ask and pray for a result and when to invoke Thy Will? Should we pray for what we deserve? What sets the limits on what we can receive from Mother? How to understand the significance of things that happen to us? What are the basic principles of spiritual knowledge of life? Why did Sri Aurobindo and The Mother come at this time in earth's evolution?